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Friday, March 21, 2025

Winning an Argument Doesn't Define Your Success

When I was a child, I dream of a better world. A world that will be a better place to live in. Where I can lead and I can control other people to follow my orders. It would be a lovely place to be. 

As days pass by, I slowly realized that not everything you want will come to reality. Not everyone will follow all your plans. And my mother guide me to be more patient to see what the real world would be. Then it come to my understanding that you cannot control everything. 

In my Elementary days, I've test one of my Teacher and have a discussion about our subject. But to tell you honestly, my Teacher can't answer some of my questions. She goes out crying because she doesn't know how to address all my queries. Then she calls me to my adviser. There I felt that I win over that argument.

When I reach the secondary level of my studying, I join the Citizens Army Training. I experienced their how to sacrifice and how to be more patience to be more matured. I learn their the "OBEY FIRST BEFORE YOU COMPLAIN", "RESPECT YOUR SUPERIOR" and many others. As a Junior officer, I suffered a lot of pain that sometimes I could not endure. But there's no way I will complain because I choose to be one of them. I am under their leadership. Then we have a next year, and I was promoted as a Staff 2 of the Corps Commander, I am fourth to the highest rank. It is my time to have my sweetest revenge to all the pain that I have suffered. 

But to our surprise, the Department of Education Culture and Sports implemented an order that there will strictly no corporal funishment to all students and no violations will be made to any forms. Our batch is quite disappointed to that memoramdum. So I've settled to command the battalion that is assigned to me and I always have a rule of mistake of one, is a mistake of all. They are aloof when they saw me going to the drill area, because a mistake of one will mean a punishment of the whole battalion. I just simply let them stay under the sun for atleast 5minutes. 

On my colleges days, here I learn that I cannot control everything, most specially if you are not that special person. If you are just an ordinary student, no one cares about you. There I encountered the so called popularity and good looking one for you to be notice. I am not that very intelligent student and I don't have a good looks either. 

I also face their a lot of struggles but then, who am I to break the rules? I am just but a simple student who just want to finish my college degree. A student who wants just to have a simple life and want to live it simple.

I do have an experience about arguing with someone. I also have a little experience on people who treat themselves as always a winner. Someone who always sees that he be able to win the argument. 



I have read a memes on one of the social media, says, "YOU MAY WIN AN ARGUMENT, BUT LOSE A SOUL." It is very interesting indeed. A very powerful message that goes through your mind. Just like also this article, "WINNING AN ARGUMENT DOESN'T DEFINE YOUR SUCCESS."  You may successfully defend your points of view and you keep on insisting your side. But the consequence of that is you lose a soul who once in a while is believing in you. 

Other people may say yes to you, but they really don't mean what they say. Because the truth is, they just want to make you stop in your nonsense argument. Because you just only want to hear is yes.

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